Why Feminine Men Attract Tons Of Women

From when we were babies to hitherto social pressures have forced us into the role of being a man.

We were discouraged to act feminine. It’s part of being socialized.

We learnt this from our parents, teachers, the media, and friends.

Let’s look at an example.

Take a visit to a local toy store.

At every toy store they have a section for boys and one for girls. Boys aren’t supposed to go into the girl’s section unless they are buying a present for their little sister.

In the boys section you’ll find G.I. Joes, Transformers, and Thomas the Train.

In the girl’s section you’ll find Barbie dolls and Dora the Explorer.

These toys aren’t just “toys.” They’re teaching aids for training kids to become a man or a woman.

If a boy is caught brushing a Brat doll’s hair, his friends will most likely make fun of him and call him a girl.

If his parents catch him, they may punish him. That’s because they fear he won’t be properly inculcated into the role of a man.

This causes boys and men alike to stay clear of acting like a girl.

There’s nothing wrong with this except that some of the best seducers have developed their feminine side. These men are called “Dandies.”

They oscillate between the role of a man and a woman.

In fact, their seductive power lies in that they cannot be categorized as masculine or feminine.

When a person cannot be categorized, they entrance others. We are attracted to those who entrance us.

Sigmund Freud said that the libido is inherently bisexual. In other words, we are equally attracted to our same sex.

But social constraints prevent us from acting on these desires.

Women are attracted to the Dandy because he is a woman inside a man’s body.

Dandies have an impudence towards pleasing women. Ironically, women find this quality intoxicating.

To become a Dandy, train yourself to be attentive to detail, relinquish your need to please others, and develop your feminine side.

Here are a few historical Dandies: Rudolph Valentino, Oscar Wilde, and Andy Warhol.

This will work whether you make your money from marketing, advertising, the finance world, selling autos, or something else.

Whether you’re into blogs, gardening, sports, spirituality, religion, traveling the world, being a family man, or health and fitness, this advice will help you.

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